Celebrating Seniors - Eric Clapton Part 1 of 2

Paying tribute to "Slowhand" Eric Clapton on his 70th birthday, in this 1st chapter of our 2 part story about the baby boomer guitar god and now senior citizen. Featuring 4 live Eric Clapton music videos including Layla & Wonderful Tonight.

The Great Love Affair - or - An Obsession? The Early Years

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(Eric Clapton 1978 Photo: Eddie / monosnaps)

Born March 30 1945 to 16-year-old single mother Patricia Clapton in England, for many years Eric Clapton thought his grandparents were his parents, and that his mom was his older sister. His father Edward Fryer was a soldier from Montreal, Canada that went off to war before Eric was born and returned to Canada post-war. It wasn't until he was 9 years old that Clapton's grandparents told him the truth about his parents; he discovered in 2007 that his father had been a piano and saxaphone player (he died in 1985), who had several children and likely never knew he was the father of Eric Clapton.

Eric Clapton started playing guitar regularly at age 15, and at 18 he joined the Yardbirds, at the time a blues-focused band. He started to gain attention in England for his guitar playing, and earned his "Slowhand" nickname while with the group (if a guitar string broke while on stage he'd replace it immediately and the audience would do a slow hand clap while waiting).

Clapton met George Harrison when the Yardbirds were a support act for The Beatles at a 1964 concert, and they became good friends. The 1965 release of the Yardbirds first hit single "For Your Love" was the end of Clapton's tenure in the Yardbirds; the group was moving towards a pop sound and Clapton wanted to stay with blues.

In 1966 Eric Clapton joined a new band called Cream (disbanded in October 1968). That same year George Harrison married the model and actress Pattie Boyd, who he'd met on the 1964 set of A Hard Day's Night.

During his time with Cream, Eric Clapton's legend as a guitar virtuoso and his use of drugs and alcohol, continued to grow. Clapton's friendship with George Harrison resulted in him playing guitar on Harrison's 1968 Beatles tune While My Guitar Gently Weeps, as well as on Harrison's 1968 solo album, Wonderwall Music. According to Pattie Boyd's 2007 autobiography Wonderful Tonight, by 1968 her marriage to Harrison was in trouble due to George's obsession with meditation, his mood swings, and numerous affairs:

"I was friendly with a French girl who was going out with Eric Clapton. When she and Eric broke up, she came to stay with us at our house...She didn't seem remotely upset about Eric and was uncomfortably close to George. Something was going on between them...I left to stay with friends and within days George phoned to say the girl had gone. I returned home but I was shocked that he could do such a thing to me. I felt unloved and miserable. It was around this time that Eric began to come over to our house. He and George had become close friends, writing and recording music together."

Eric Clapton had begun to fall in love with Pattie Boyd, who recalled "I was aware that Eric found me attractive and I enjoyed the attention he paid me. It was hard not to be flattered when I caught him staring at me or when he chose to sit beside me".

In December 1969 Pattie Boyd and her sister Paula went to see Clapton perform at a couple of solo concerts, and very soon after that Paula moved into a new mansion Eric had built in Surrey that he called Hurtwood Edge. By March 1970 Clapton's newly formed band Derek and the Dominos (originally called Eric Clapton and Friends) were recording sessions for Harrison's new album All Things Must Pass. Below, Derek and the Dominos, with Eric Clapton on the far right, in a Billboard ad. 

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Eric had read and been deeply affected by the poem he related to called "The Story of Layla and Majnun", about a man who went crazy because he couldn't marry the beautiful, unavailable woman he'd fallen in love with.

Clapton turned to songwriting to express his feelings about Pattie and later in 1970 the Derek and the Dominos went into the recording studio with guest guitarist Duane Allman, to record their 1970 album Layla and Other Assorted Love Songs. Unfortunately Clapton's increasing misery had also escalated his use of alcohol, cocaine and especially heroin. Layla, Have You Ever Loved a Woman, Why Does Love Got to Be So Sad were among the songs on the album. Co-vocalist and keyboard player Bobby Whitlock is quoted as saying

"When you heard Layla, you knew right away what it was all about...It was understood Eric was totally in love with Pattie.

Below - Eric Clapton performing Layla in 1988 at Royal Albert Hall. 

Pattie Boyd recounted this:

"We met secretly at a flat in South Kensington. Eric Clapton had asked me to come because he wanted me to listen to a new number he had written. He switched on the tape machine, turned up the volume and played me the most powerful, moving song I had ever heard. It was Layla, about a man who falls hopelessly in love with a woman who loves him but is unavailable... with the realisation that I had inspired such passion and creativity, the song got the better of me. I could resist no longer." 

She said that later that evening she went to a house party and was soon joined by Eric; George turned up and went to find Pattie, whereupon and Clapton told him,

"'I have to tell you, man, that I'm in love with your wife."

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Unfortunately neither the album nor any of the songs on it, were an immediate commercial success; and although Derek and the Dominos toured the US, by early 1971 they had broken up.

Afterwards, according to Bobby Whitlock,

"Eric just went ahead and locked the door at Hurtwood and stayed home for two years and did heroin.”

In 1973 the Layla song and album started to get airplay and became a hit. Clapton had kicked his heroin addiction in 1974, but was becoming, if not already, an alcoholic.

Around that same time George Harrison and Pattie Boyd finally split up; Pattie then promptly moved in with Clapton.

Eric Clapton recorded albums in 1974 and 1975 that included songs such as "I Shot the Sheriff" (his 1st #1 hit) and had a world tour in 1975. Subsequent albums such as 1977's Slowhand included the hits Wonderful Tonight (written for Pattie) and Cocaine...

Below, Eric Clapton performing Wonderful Tonight in 1978. He said in an interview "usually the spark of any song I write is about the way I feel about a certain woman and a certain time".

To be continued

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Anita Hamilton

50+ World editor & baby boomer writer Anita Hamilton has always been interested in the "real people" stories behind the characters that create and inhabit the world of music, books, movies, television shows, current events, history, etc. A lifelong love of research (ok, nosiness) and writing, combined with a loving and supportive family complete with 3 mini-dachshund minions, keeps her busy.

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